Imposter syndrome is the condition of feeling anxious and not experiencing success internally, despite being high-performing in external, objective ways. It can result in people feeling like a “fraud” or “a phony” and doubting their abilities.
There are three ways those suffering from imposter syndrome exhibit their condition, also known as the Three P’s:
- Paralysis; or
If you’re reading this thinking, “uh huh, sounds like me!” then you’ve come to the right place. Maybe you’re new to school leadership, or simply new to a particular school district. As we gear up for the 2023-2024 school year, these feelings may be creeping up more and more. Doing these 5 things will have you saying “Not today, imposter syndrome” in no time!
- Give yourself a break. Feeling self-doubt is normal — across many areas of life — and is experienced by even the most successful people. Recognizing this can help alleviate some of the pressure and self-criticism.
- Set realistic expectations. If your natural tendency is that of a perfectionist, setting unreasonably high expectations can contribute to imposter syndrome. Aim for progress rather than perfectionism, and embrace the idea that making mistakes is a natural part of learning and growth.
- Keep a mindset of continuous learning. We’ve all heard the phrase “The only stupid question is the question that is never asked.” It’s only natural that if you’re new to a district or new to school leadership, you will have questions. Keep an open mind and keep asking questions — even the ones you think may be stupid.
- Recognize and acknowledge your accomplishments. Take the time to reflect on your achievements and acknowledge your skills, experiences and successes. Keep a record of positive feedback, compliments and testimonials from others for those days you’re feeling especially unsure of yourself.
- Seek help if needed. If imposter syndrome significantly affects your mental health, self-esteem or overall well-being, consider seeking guidance. Finding a mentor or leadership coach can help provide a third-party perspective. After all, there are plenty who have walked in your shoes, and who have felt the same feelings you’re feeling now.
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